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I'm A Tomboy, And No One Wants To Date Me

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This is Jo. Actually, her name is Josephine, but you wouldn’t be able to imagine a person less suitable to be called Josephine. She’s a tomboy, and she’s proud of it. However, life as a tomboy is not as amusing as you might imagine. She’s faced a lot of problems, and she wants to tell you about them.
Jo had trouble communicating with other girls right from her early childhood. She remembers one time when a large group of children had gathered in one place for a party or something, and her mom gently pushed her towards the other girls and said, “go play with the dolls, make friends with someone!” She diligently started moving dolls here and there and listening to boring talk about girly problems, but all the while she kept looking at the boys, who were playing something thrilling, laughing and doing their boyish stuff. She was so envious that at some point she just silently stood up and joined them. That was the moment when the fun started for her.
Things didn’t improve as the years went by. Jo was always attracted to the world of boys, and all of her friends were boys as well. She felt at ease when she talked to them, and felt that she understood their problems and their way of thinking better. Whereas when she was around girls, she was totally clueless. Their problems were hard for her to follow, especially when they complained about boys.
Jo had to adapt her looks to her lifestyle as well. When she went out with her friends, they always did something active, like skateboarding or exploring abandoned buildings or climbing trees. For these kinds of things, you need to dress in a practical way. She found out that jeans and hoodies are much more comfortable in this respect than typical girls’ clothes, which she had always hated in any case. And that is how she has dressed her whole life. For Jo, it was always a tragedy when they made some formal visit and she needed to dress “properly”, as people would call it. A cute dress, shiny shoes, a neat hairdo… ugh. As you can probably imagine, phrases like “wear skirts, be more feminine, you’re a girl” were the things she kept hearing time and again, until at one point her parents just gave up.
It wasn’t that Jo felt she was ugly or anything, and that being a tomboy was her way of gaining confidence. She actually thinks she’s quite cute, and when she’s forced to be a girly girl she looks no worse than her peers. For her, being a tomboy is a lifestyle, and she’s happy with that. The problem was that some time ago, she’d noticed that her friends had started dating.
One of the things that people were often mistaken about was the belief that because Jo was a tomboy, she must be gay. But she’s actually attracted to boys, not girls. Ironically, she actually gets a lot of backtalking from girls who say that she’s just trying to get attention from all the boys around her. She’s never taken this seriously, because she’s never had THAT kind of attention from the boys. Which is actually the core of her problem.
Yes, she’s seeking her first romance. She has lots of boys around her. So what’s the problem, you might ask. The problem is that they don’t really see her as a girl! They know she’s a girl, of course, but they don’t want to date her, because who would date a bro? Once, there was a boy she liked, and she thought it would be wise to approach him and ask if he wanted to go out with her. And guess what - he just laughed at her! He wasn’t mean or anything, it was more something like “Sorry bro, I don’t see you as a GIRL”. Seeing the look on her face, he corrected himself: “I mean, THAT kind of a girl”. Oh thanks, now that’s much better!
This was the first time when being a tomboy had a negative effect on her life. She even tried to put on make up and a dress, but felt really weird and the boys just looked at her strange as well. She gave up and lost hope. It seemed like it was a price that she had to pay to keep the comfortable and amusing life of a tomboy. She became a bit melancholic looking at all those happy couples, and felt that something was missing from her life for the first time.
One day she was invited out to go skateboarding, but she wasn’t in the mood so she just sat there, watching her friends and thinking her sad thoughts. One of her oldest friends soon came over to sit with her and asked why she was so sad. She didn’t want to lie, so she explained everything as it really was - that no one wanted to date her because no one considered her a potential girlfriend. “Don’t cry”, he said, “I’ll go on a date with you!” She refused out self-respect. “I don’t need charity”, she said. Suddenly, he became very serious and said that he really wanted to. And so she accepted. Accidentally, she had made the same mistake all her friends had made with her - she hadn’t considered his feelings, because you don’t go on dates with buddies. Well, she was mistaken.
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She is so positive 💕
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Ronia Törnkvist 31 minute ago
I'm also a tomboy! #tomboy squad
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한국Bts 42 minutes ago
Another Tomboy here i am going To cut my hair someday
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Im Tomboy too 😋
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I hang out with two boys, I don't wear skirts a lot, high heels are a pain, and the ONLY thing that is PINK that I LIKE is my robe (and my profile pic)
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#savage Gal 2 hours ago
Ima tomboy too
NinjaBoyKC
NinjaBoyKC 3 hours ago
That’s beautiful
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I hate girly stuff and yes im a tomboy
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Midnight Playz YT 4 hours ago
I am stylish (not that much) but hey! I appreciate it You gotta love yourself before you love others
Lily does art sometimes
She sounds really hot... I'm so gay.
Lily does art sometimes
I'm a tomboy but I'm a lesbian.... And a guy likes me....... Fuck.
ube ganda
ube ganda 7 hours ago
Your not tomboy your just boyish.
Tiúilip
Tiúilip 8 hours ago
Yikes people thinking that being a tomboy is cool well it is not and I am one because I know I'm not pretty so what's the point in being feminine If your not pretty so I wear boyish clothes etc
Skep
Skep 9 hours ago
Im not Girl. Im not boy Aim Gay
Yureii Edits
Yureii Edits 9 hours ago
"I'm against gender stereotypes" > "I'm a tomboy"
Steph Draws
Steph Draws 10 hours ago
Its super hard for me because i love acting and im very dramatic, everyone sees me as annoying and they don’t feel ashamed to say it to my face. So i met my boyfriend at a drama class!
Jacky September
Jacky September 12 hours ago
l am toqo to😊👍
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Jiro Sutcliff 12 hours ago
I totally understand you! I'm transgender boy and I knew it since my 3 years. I always was playing with boys when I was young and never wore dresses. My dad was always forcing me to wear "girly things"
FUNTHINGSFORLIFE !!!
I'm a tomboy and I'm 10 so literally I look like a complete boy.
Cathline Games
Cathline Games 12 hours ago
When my mom was with a fortune teller ,the fortune teller said I'm gonna get an tomboy boyfriend
Araceli White
Araceli White 12 hours ago
Don't worry you don't have to be sad cuz im a tom Boy 2 and my name is Bella but you can call me Bell
Said Rawat
Said Rawat 12 hours ago
I'm tomboy too it's ok just be the way who are you
Leaf
Leaf 13 hours ago
Same
Alex Garcia
Alex Garcia 13 hours ago
I relate soooooo much
Girl Gamer
Girl Gamer 13 hours ago
Thanks for boosting up my confidence because I am also a tomboy who is looking to be loved.
frances_jagiya
frances_jagiya 14 hours ago
Relateeeeeee
Blizzard Tooth Sol
Blizzard Tooth Sol 14 hours ago
I'm a tomboy AND gay. AND I'M PROUD!!! To be honest, I don't really care if anyone actually likes me. When ever I liked someone I eventually told them, and they teased me because I look like a boy and gay.
Gaming with Lann and Vlog
I'm a tomboy to I understand ya girl
WildlyAthier
WildlyAthier 15 hours ago
I’m a tomboy, when people call me a boy, I’m not offended.
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Ninja doge the 1st 16 hours ago
You: "No one wants to date me" Me: *I have no interest in the human being*
Gatty Cat
Gatty Cat 16 hours ago
TOMBOIMY GROUP >:3
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red yoshigamer 16 hours ago
(Sung like bohemian rhapsody) I'm just a tomboy nobody loves me HES JUST A TOMBOY FROM A TOMBOY FAMILY!
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Just be yourself!
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Love yourself
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GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER AND I WILL GIVE YOU THE DICK YOU NEED
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savage girlgames 17 hours ago
This explains me almost perfectly I hate dresses and skirts and I'm friends with other tomboys and boysI don't like makeup or drama
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Kos Moore 18 hours ago
I also hate DRESSES AND SKIRTS
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Your just like me.... Nut... My mum forces me to wear ear ring and all girly stuff but all i love is video games, hurting my friend for fun(we love to hurt each other XD)
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Kendrell Rapp 18 hours ago
Trans gender
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Omg I needed that ending now I have self esteem
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I’m a ton boy but I’m not allowed to be who I want to be my aunt thinks she’s raised a girly girl and I tell her I’m not like that, it got to the point we’re she don’t let me pick out my outfits for school and makes my hair the way she wants it😭
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Amanda Coker 19 hours ago
Same for me
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Ella G. 19 hours ago
To be honest I love tomboy clothes and I dress girly... I *HATE* it sometimes there are sometimes for girl clothes and sometimes there are people like me who dress like a girl but I love sports 🏀🏈⚾
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I thought I was a tomboy Because my fav. Coler pink
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Ok I am 80%tom boy 30%girly girl
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Juan Torres 19 hours ago
I'm tomboy I have pants and shirt and I think I have a boy voice
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Same
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Pupper Starr 20 hours ago
No one wouldn't date me cause I'm Lesbain.. (JK I already have a GF💘🌹) Tho, Im Proud to be Lesbain💘🌈
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Yessica Sanchez 20 hours ago
#peeps say OMG YOUR A BOY I’m like :|
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Jackline Grey 20 hours ago
Don't worry, I'm a tomboy, too.
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MR Apple seed 21 hour ago
He just wanted head
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SirHippy68 21 hour ago
fuck you girl
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mia toma 21 hour ago
I'm sorry for hearing those things but don't forget you should know your beautiful just the way you are and you don't have to change. But the thing is IM UGLY
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mia toma 22 hours ago
Bro this video made me ABSOLUTELY a clue so that can give me how blah blah blah yeah and thanks for making this video it made me happy
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LATTE DRAWS 22 hours ago
There is no such thing as tomboys
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Apple Blossom 22 hours ago
I'm a tomboy to
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Supergamer girl2009 22 hours ago
I am also a tomboy :) don’t feel bad about it
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Alexia Williams 22 hours ago
Girl my hair looks like mine and I'm a tom boy and my crush is now my boy friend 😀😀😀
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Tavis Nguyen 23 hours ago
In the pool... Girl: talk dirty to me Guy: about 14 million lbs of garbage is thrown into the ocean. Most of it is plastic.
Glauco Simões
Glauco Simões 23 hours ago
You are beautiful the way you are. Tomboys are as beautiful as any other girl, they're different and difference is great. ❤️
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ya tomboys rule cause in one
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Yea and I’m hot and no one wants to date me so hmm life is no fair
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im a tomboy too people hate me for that my only friend was a boy but he met some other boy which distroed our close relashonship what makes me cry about It is we have been friends for three years 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Wow
Eve Blevins
Eve Blevins Day ago
Omg I thought this was gonna make fun of this stupid concept
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Vincent Vega Day ago
First world problems 🤦‍♂️
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Same
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But I Always have girly clothes
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I’m a tomboy too!
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AnwynB03 o3o Day ago
This is so relatable. Girl problems make no sense to me, and I hate dresses.
Kaelyn Family
What’s on her face :)
horse ranch
horse ranch Day ago
do you know Jo from little woman? she is atomboy to, and she married on the end. don't worry.
CamiLeigh Fields
I'm tomboy and not
Phathsoda Sarun
YOU ARE THE PEEPS I’D WANNA BE. FWENDS WITH.
miraculous adventures
Im girly! What about you?
HeadsUpEquestrian
It feels like my life in a story this happened to me
Ahmed Khaled
Ahmed Khaled Day ago
Well my gf is a tomboy but I didn't know the specific term for her looks but I loved her so much but she ended up leaving me (I'm straight guy btw)
Sayda Valle
Sayda Valle Day ago
I still have this problem man! I love this video Alot of girls think i like them but I like guys. I clicked on this video once i saw it its so relatable
Eclipse Doggo
Imma Tomboy too!
Hannah Charanek
Girls are the hardest to understand in my school.
inky_mrabbit
inky_mrabbit Day ago
im a huuuge tomboy
Tcdjh Oggj
Tcdjh Oggj Day ago
I hate that too but im a 6% tomboy
Gamer Girl
Gamer Girl Day ago
Im a lesbian tomboy, oh and I also have the same hairstyle as you but I have blue hair
Amie the Team Skull Grunt
im a tomboy aswell and i have a boyfriend wtf. i got the sidecut hair, never wear dresses or skirts, no pink, epic gaymer 😎
On_ Rampage
On_ Rampage Day ago
I can relate to this except people have a crush on me
Madelyn Ingles
I feel bad for you
Potato Whisperer 73
I’m a hipster and I have short hair so one day a pre schooler came up to me and said, “are you a boy?”😂
FreeShavacaDoo Boss
I’m a tomboy but I’m friends with a bunch of weirdos and potato’s 🤣
Aura_xox
Aura_xox Day ago
I'LL DATE YOU c:
Alexandra Butterfield
Not to be rude or anything but what is on her cheek 🤨🤨
VIXEN STUDIOS
Your story is my life when it came my parents telling me how to dress just because I'm female. I also hate girly clothes and won't wear anything but pants and a tee.
Marco Espinosa
Im a tomboy too and I love hoodies but I LOVE APHMAUs channel
Marco Espinosa
You sound like Kately
Sian Tonge
Sian Tonge Day ago
If no one lives u for u I'M A KILL THEM MWAHAHAHA but seriously ur bootiful just the way u r
Barney The Bear
The tomboys have always gotten the attention of all the boys when I was growing up and were the first ones to typically start dating and get their first kiss not the girly girls.
周洪
周洪 Day ago
its okay that your a tomboy I'm a Tomboy too
Niina The Animr Lover
I sometime wake up feeling like a boy and sometimes a girl so I act like a boy when I go to school and I act like a girl on the weekends but mostly I am boyish I HATE pink and purple I HATE dresses,skirts and so on I always wear jeans and boyish clothes to school
- XY -
- XY - Day ago
Actually im a little boyish but not a tomboy and my crush actually likes me back because of that he said when i was getting bullied "HEY!LEAVE HER ALONE shes perfect for what she is!" we are now dating for almost ½Year😊
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